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Trying to fit in!! Let Your True Colors Shine

Be yourself

Never dim your light to fit in with others

“If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you could be”

~ Maya Angelou

These famous words from Maya Angelou always have me thinking. Do you ever catch yourself doing things not because you want to but because you have to? Have you ever stopped to consider why and who took that power of your decision and handed a decision to you? Is there an image that you are trying to portray instead of letting your true colors shine?
I ask these questions of you as I ask these questions from me quite often. It is so easy to be lost and be caught in a hamster wheel of living up to expectations and personas but whose exactly?
I have this thought provoking moment because we have a lap dance class coming up at the studio. We offer these workshops only twice a year. When I was a student much like you all I did not take lap dance classes because “I did not do that” . On my drive to the studio I had a conversation with myself as to “why I did not do that”? The answers were very surprising needless to say I took the workshop and rest is history. What are your reasons for holding yourself back? Take a moment to consider